3 Words!!!!

Three words, `i love you', have changed lives miraculously while the three dreaded words `i hate you' have often triggered off violence. `sorry', `please' and `thank you' have worked wonders. some words can give you ulcers, heartburns, or bruised egos.Be cautious in speaking. When you injure another with your words the bond of friendship breaks forever. even if the relationship is mended there will always remain a knot.'' so, beware of words.

Best Friends!!!

He was not in rhyme these days.. always lost in his own confusing dreams and calculations… I am talking about one of my friend. After some desperate tags, he told us about the problem which was sucking his life like a creep.

Hummmm welllll…. There's this girl that he really like, and she tells him that she just wants to be friends.
The first stimulus which I have when some thing like this happens with me is …FUCK YOU…!!!

If the women that you meet are telling you that they want to be "just friends", then it means that YOU'RE DOING SOMETHING TO MAKE THEM ALL FEEL THAT WAY. The good news is that if you're doing something to make them feel that way, then you can start doing something different to make them feel ATTRACTED to you instead.You're probably not going to be able to do much for the ones that are already telling you that they want to just "be friends",

If you act like a "nice, friendly guy" then a woman is NOT going to feel attracted to you. What do I mean by "nice" and "friendly"?I mean don't give her too many compliments, don't act shy and don't smother her with attention. Don't call her every five minutes (for Christ sake ). Don't talk with a tentative, weak voice. Don't go far out of your way to be accommodating too early. Don't tell her that you have feelings for her before you've gotten intimate with her. DO tease her.DO act Cocky & Funny around her. DO end phone conversations and meetings first. DO act a little bit too confident. DO use The Kiss Test early on in the relationship. DO speak with strength and confidence.

You know that I believe that women usually SAY that they want one thing (a nice, stable, considerate guy) but that they are ATTRACTED to something else (a challenging, confident, funny, hard-to-get, unpredictable buy).......

To my Prochain.....To my Almighty

                                                                
My God ... Just give me strength to make my feelings flow through her heart. Since the day I have seen her she has enticed my heart, my body, Soul. My thoughts are enclouded by her presence.

For once in my life, if this world leaves me alone, my lord ..........give me youth so that I can live with her and love each like Adam and Eve.

Something about Love!!!

What is love????

 The dictionary defines love as "A deep, tender, an ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude towards a person such as arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities or A sense of underlying oneness."
or
Perhaps a feeling of intese desire and attraction towards a person with whom one disposed to make a pair; "The emotion of Sex and Romance."

In truth this is only a part what love is. However just listen to your heart to know the answer.

Do not believe in anything,bcoz you heard it.
Do not believe in anything bcoz it is spoken and rumoured by many.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and others.
Do not believe in anything simply bcoz it is found written in your religious books.
Do not believe in traditions bcoz they have been handed down for many generations.

But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conductive to the good and benifit of one and all, then accept it and live upto it.

Love is a creator and will create anything we desire.

SOCH???

Love stroked me ……….. once again!!!!

The hardest thing in anyone’s life is breakup and the best and the beautiful thing  in anyone’s life is “The feeling of love”

I  always thought that people should wait for the “right ones” to be in  a relationship with.

 This thought comes with two ends – how can you possibly know if he/she is the one if you haven’t been together? This is the one way of thinking, but I like to think that you just know. You see it in his eyes, in his behavior and in his dreams – you’ve got to admit, your dreams must match. It’s never going to work out if you can’t even find solutions to things that even don’t exist yet.

It is natural that if you have been on your own the whole time and suddenly move in with someone – it raises problems without question. Now it is only up to you if you let these problems and fights ruin everything or you just look past them and grow togehter, accepting each other habits. You can not change another person. 

It’s all about finding ways to make both of you happy.

SOCH!!!

The Art of Giving!!!

What should you do when faced with betrayal, hurt, anger or disappointment?
You can chose to react differently by taking responsibility for your own emotions and feelings. You do this in full awareness that others do not 'cause' your feelings.you choose your own. You have to let go of disappointments and get on with your life. You need to forgive.

This is especially difficult when other people dont seek our forgiveness, or indeed when they are clearly in the wrong and dont deserve to be forgiven.
Never mind- Let go!

In such situations forgiveness allows you to let go of a no-win situation and walk out of it unscathed.

To arrive at forgiveness, someone has to pass through different stages.. Like someone has wronged me , done something mean to me, someone has been unfair to me and I cannot forget it. I feel hurt.
 The hurt keeps on throbbing in me. Remember that its not I who feels hurt, but the ego.

"Hurt leads to Hate".

SOCH!!!