You can chose to react differently by taking responsibility for your own emotions and feelings. You do this in full awareness that others do not 'cause' your feelings.you choose your own. You have to let go of disappointments and get on with your life. You need to forgive.
This is especially difficult when other people dont seek our forgiveness, or indeed when they are clearly in the wrong and dont deserve to be forgiven.
Never mind- Let go!
In such situations forgiveness allows you to let go of a no-win situation and walk out of it unscathed.
To arrive at forgiveness, someone has to pass through different stages.. Like someone has wronged me , done something mean to me, someone has been unfair to me and I cannot forget it. I feel hurt.
The hurt keeps on throbbing in me. Remember that its not I who feels hurt, but the ego.
"Hurt leads to Hate".
SOCH!!!
